No Bail out...Now What

This is the Palin without lipstick

My Favorite Speech



More the same...Is Palin using Bush's Speech writer too

Do You See A Difference?

More to the point....

Why Men don't Cheat

Just a thought...Maybe if we hear more from Men who don’t cheat we can apply those answers to our relationships and bedrooms.

Another thought, and its before noon I'm clocking out soon......

Who do we think these men are sleeping with…..Women! Except for the Al Reynolds type I’ll write about down low dudes another time. I have wants, frustrations, run out batteries, just like many other women so it’s silly to think we don’t do more than contemplate about cheating. Men and Women cheat.

Recently the topic of the Oprah show was Why Men Cheat. I’m over hearing about why men cheat bottom line it all hurts the same. Communicate! Women stop saying, “well you know a man is going to be a man” or “they can’t help it”, if you say it and believe it, it happens. Why lower the standard of the relationship before it happens. Normally cheating begins when the relationship deteriorates so why not voice your issues to your woman or man before playing the “oh it just happened routine.” I don’t know how his. …got in there or I was vulnerable and she showed me more attention than you.
I know I’m faithful to my boo!
I know where my man is do you?

9/11

Today marks the 7 year anniversary that changed our lives.



Unfortunately we are still losing lives

A family that preys

www.familythatpreysmovie.com


Going to see this movie Friday! Tyler Perry...call me!

To Degree or Not to Degree

Does a degree determine if a person is more or less compatible in the world of dating?

Last night, I had a conversation with a family member about a prominent , successful bachelor in the Atlanta and I wouldn’t mind dating if opportunity permits! Their response was “you don’t have degree you so you don’t have a chance with him” So my follow up question was “ so I don’t have a degree so I can’t date someone that does?” their reply “there are plenty of educated women after him so don’t have a shot and you should probably set you sights on someone like Brian Nichols”

This conversation really hurt me, yes, I do not have a degree but I’m 7 classes away from having my degree in 2009 and yes I've been in school long enough to have a Ph. D. Still it is very unlikely my the last few courses will make me more intelligent than I am, only more knowledgeable about my major which is Business. A degree is significant in the work force because it gives you leverage for money, or just getting a job! However, I do not consider myself out of someone’s league or beneath someone, I’m interested in dating simply because I don’t have degree. The "majority" follow the model of get a degree and a good paying job. If those same people had the same income and do what the really wanted as a career there would not be a second thought.

In America most people measure success by money and accolades. If you take a person with Ph. D and works as professor making 50k with a Honda Civic you think a moderate success level. However a millionaire with no degree and owned several well known companies you would be more impressed with the financial status that than a degree.

I definitely haven't reached the height of success I want but life is a marathon not a sprint. Everyone has their own definition of success for their lives. When it comes dating love is compatible and whatever else is on your soul mate check list. I certainly do not think anyone should settle and I would not let others tell you what you what best you.

I always pray for constant motivation because when you step out into entrepreneurship there is a battle with complacency especially when juggling a corporate gig. Last night I got what I asked for motivation, even though it was negative I will positively work harder.

My thoughts of Sarah Palin